What was so special there? I guess it would be easier to say what was “normal”! During the faci premeeting in Marki we decided that we want to make delegates think. Think about themselves. That we want to create such a conference during which they will open their minds, they will be more creative, they will be open minded for everything what is happening. Conference they will be creating with us. We decided to focus not on knowledge but on discovering themselves, getting to know their strong and weak sides, their personality. And that was the beginning of something special. When we’ve decided on that we came up with many “strange” ideas which weresupposed to help us, which were supposed to create atmosphere of reflection, opening minds, sharing and getting to know ourselves better.
We decided not to show the agenda. Delegates didn’t know the agenda. We showed it during the closing plenary. Yes, that’s not a mistake, closing plenary. The effects were better that we have ever thought. First of all delegates didn’t know what to expect and they were coming to the sessions with open minds, without any expectations, there were no possibility of thinking like this: “Oh, again this? We have it already million times!”. Do you know that people weren’t late? And what was the most surprising (at least for me) there were no single person which didn’t come for the session! Each time everybody was participating!
We decided to use only polish words. Have ever thought that we have problems with saying some things in Polish? Such impressions as “performance”, “challenging”, “inputs”, “feedback”, learning” or some strange words created from English but with Polish grammar “challengowac”. We came up with the rule that each time anybody is saying something in English we are saying “I don’t understand” (of course in Polish). We – delegates and facis – created some kind of dictionary. For example:
Chair – wodzirej
Roll call – skecz, figiel,
@dance - @plas
Coffee break – przerwa kawowa, kawy brak
Punishment team – zespol penitencjarny, zespol pejczujacy
Session - spotkanie
And many many more… And I have to say it was really challenging, at least at the beginning. And really funny when we were trying to pass something and we hadn’t had any idea how to say it. You have to try it! And don’t be surprised when somebody will tell you “Nie rozumiem”.
Another thing was not using beamer. Believe us – it’s possible! You can ask Chwałka how you can show the agenda without beamer.
These were small things… And they were important. But I think that the most important was division for homegroups were faci was only facilitating the process, we weren’t taking part in any get-to-know games and game in the forest which was summing up whole things, goals we were discussing before. And evening plenary in the Checiny castle. During this game homegroups had some tasks but they were not so important. The most important were this team experience which they got. During the game it became dark, they had only one torch and they need to manage. They pass through the process of creating the team, getting to know their strong and weak points, how they are behaving in some extreme environment. They need to do it to be at the castle at 11pm. And you know what? All groups came to the castle for the plenary on time. And after that we had plenary where we sharing with atmosphere of history all around us. And a lot of people wanted to share and shared. How they felt, how they behaved, what is their learning…
For me personally there was also one very important thing. We – all people present there, in Checiny – together created such an atmosphere that it was much more easier for me to open for others, to approach people I didn’t know, I hadn’t been talking with. And this wasn’t my first conference. I don’t know, I don’t want to count which one, but for sure I hadn’t had this feeling before.
I was trying to share here general view of the conference, some my personal thoughts and some thoughts which I’m sure that whole faci team agree with. We – Chwałka, Gosiaczek, Ola, Milenka, Krzychu - GuGu, Przemo and me - can talk a lot about this conference, all of us are really inspired, full of energy… We just can’t agree for one thing – are we flying 10cm, 30cm, 50cm or even more above he ground?
Thank you for this experience!